Dear readers...

I don't know why my font and some of my words are so weird today this post. Ha ha.

Yesterday just overnight-ed at my cousin's house, Sengkang area. At least now i know bus 86 from AMK goes there =) We played warcraft3 almost the whole night! Except that he needed to work this morning at 8, so we slept around 3 plus lo. His room was super cold also, at 24 degrees we were both covering ourselves with blanket le >.<>=)

Have some wacky pictures for you to view, enjoy...!
Parents! Sheesh, can't live without them and can't live with them either. Ha ha. Sometimes they are like strangling us. But no choice, that's family ties. It's what makes or breaks the family. Da Issue O' Love... Honour your Parents, and you'll live longer... really

Sometimes i feel this way too. People want to know me, make friends with me just for the "benefits". I had too many casual sex, ha ha (live it up to you to interpret). But never drunk, i guess i'm also a listener and a nagger also. Let's just be friends with benefits, will ya?

Ho ho. Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the nerdiest and dickiest of them all? Ha ha, nay not me! Lolx. Lucky my field doesn't require me to memorise the value of pi.

The purpose of my blog... is to expression my view on frienship regarding first impressions and thereafter... please read if you have the intellect + patience to do so...

Friends; First Impressions
In the beginning there was God... (skips to year 2008, month Aug, today)... and men was populating around the Earth. No one man is an island, we are constantly in interacting proximity of each other. What have we cultured in our mindset of a foreign human being???

(-)<-----[PERSON]----->(+)

^ that is Da Scale of Starters Friendship ^

They say first impression lasts for a duration of 3-7 seconds. >>> Where outer appearance, mannerism and responses are judged (quick judge). Sooooo, if you think that person is an irritating bitch or ah beng that doesn't deserve any respect, your scale would be like...

(-)<--------[PERSON]-->(+)

^Increased awareness for "bad" actions + More room to grow towards enemy + Less space to develop to good friends ^
"bad" cause everyone has different criteria of something deemed as bad. Quick e.g. robbing a bank can be seen as good to someone as the person is at least making an effort to get money to bring bread to his family table etc... haha

This applies to people that you think are not to your liking and behaves in an irritating manner (in your opinion).

Similarly, if that person is appealing to you in terms of looks and mannerism or pleasantly surprised at how the person reacts to certain stuffs, then obviously it'll be like...

(-)<--[PERSON]-------->(+)

I won't be explaining this then... ha ha.

That concludes the general model. There's of course variations to every single individual, such as their love language (talk, touch, time, things, do) and their natural culture background at how they would respond to a complete stranger e.g. Some people can put their hands around another person's shoulder the 1st time they see them, others just prefer to just smile and move away to try to give the most impact (i don't know why also).

Ha ha. Class, any question? Please raise your hand and i'll attend to each of you if there's any doubts =P

I shall end off with this defination of friendship:

Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.

For those whose command of english not that power, altruism means like concern for the welfare of the other party (friend).

Blogging off...