Dear readers...

Phew ==" rather beat from overnight stay plus movie screening with a friend. Ha ha, eyes still very droopy like yours =) Been a long time since i had someone like you. Lolx. Waaa still got BBQ also, so envy people that can eat good food, Wahahah, feel like saying it to myself lor!

So here's Da Love Goondu speaking in Channel DLG...
audience: *BOOOOO* *Hisssss*

Three walls
Yea, i've been pondering over this for very long. Yeah duh, if not i won't put it here dumb dumb. Alright, besides me talking to myself. It has always been my interest to literate relationship thingys, and try to explain myself as clearly as possible.

Here we go. The three walls of people-to-people relationship...

1st wall. Yes, the wall looks shabby and all. Precisely the point! Appearence counts, even though someone might say "blah blah blah, i don't judge the book by the cover, i look at the content, blah blah blah", some extent to another (or extremes) physical outward appearence MATTERS. In order to impress someone, make sure you at least manage to catch the eye of your potential prospect. *ahem* Don't argue with me that inner beauty is all that matters, cause i totally agree with it, and as much as i agree with that i totally believe that the world is an unfair one and if you don't manage to get attention, the downsteam stuffs are a bunch of crapz...

It's normally a natural thing if you or cannot pass this wall. I mean that normally it would be already decided by the person. This wall would at least sustain the relationship for about 3 days to a week (if you're talking about BGR only for appearances). What we call a honeymoon period as well, where everything is lovey dovey... until...

Wall no. 2. It's kinda like a stratified wall, meaning this barrier has many layers to it. And you've got to tackle it clear and clean for each layer, making sure nothing is left uncertain or in this weird suspense...
The wall would compromise of both parties personal habits, e.g. eating meals, socialising friends, and of course time on the phone. It'll vary from person to person, like DUH. Both sides must get through this together, no one is to be of superiority or inferiority. If not your "stamina" will run our pretty fast then *click* problems flow in like no tomorrow. At this point of time, trust, transparency and this sense of loyalty is of the utmost importance.

And yes, for BGR, it's normally here where if they find anything horrible in another and they'll start breaking up and tearing up their relationship. It could be from something as simple as not waiting for the bus together, to misunderstandings between a third party (shall not elaborate).

Commonly, i think this period of time, would be times of unstablity and turbulence. Many times would be high and lows, depends on the impact and how both party manages it. Facing problems together? Or just Rambo let-me-handle-all-of-this-for-you style... It's your choice to make and influence each other. Words is important in this era, yeah it'll be that long.

And finally we have wall 3. Hopefully most of us would not have to face this die hard wall (means almost unbreakable). Well, it's not unbreakable, it's just most of us may not have the strength to break through it. What i mean? This wall signifies the factors and senerios in which we have no control over or very little control. Applies more for relationship BGR though...

A bad example would be a couple gonna catch HSM3, but in the end all the movie time slot got booked out. And what happens next would be more important, both party reacted negatively and a quarrel broke out, and both went back home separately. I wish this kind of senerio would never befall on any of my beloved friends (altough some too late le)...


RAWR! That concludes my sector on Three Walls. Yeah i'm still lame don't worry. Hee hee xD That kinda reminds me, i watch Army Daze yesterday. And i relating to them loh, so scary certain portions, as in emotionally upsetting. Ha ha. I mean boo hoo :P Some of my good friends have already been enlisted, Sigh... I need to stay back for 1 more year, retained = ="

regrets not putting in effort, when i knew i could make a difference. I know the future would be a different one if i just tried harder (and softer)... xD

Oh have work later. Ah hu! o_o.... zzzzz *snores*

Sleeping out...